First Pill for Postpartum Depression Shows Varied Real-World Results
By Pam Belluck
Pam Belluck, who covers maternal mental health, visited and talked with women across the country who experienced postpartum depression.
Some women’s symptoms improved quickly after taking the pill, but depression persisted in others. Doctors are trying to learn which patients benefit, and why some don’t.
Depression descended on Samantha Cohn about two months after her baby boy was born.
He was thriving, but she became convinced she was a terrible mother. “I felt like I wasn’t doing enough, I wasn’t doing anything right,” she said. She began to think her son and husband might be better off without her. When the baby was about 5 months old, she tried to take her life with a gun.
Ms. Cohn, 30, who lives near Fayetteville, N.C., was hospitalized for weeks and underwent surgeries to repair damage to her jaw, nose, tongue and face. But her postpartum depression remained challenging to treat. The hospital’s maternal mental health specialists decided to have her try a medication that had recently become available: the first pill specifically for postpartum depression.
Clinical trials had found that the drug, zuranolone, marketed as Zurzuvae and taken daily for 14 days, can ease symptoms for some women in as little as three days, while general antidepressants can take weeks. For Ms. Cohn, its impact was swift and striking. On her fourth day of taking it, she said she suddenly “felt so much clarity in my head, like I didn’t have nagging thoughts about not being good enough.”
Now, a year and a half after the drug became available, thousands of women have tried it, and their experiences have run the gamut. For some, symptoms improved remarkably. Others described a modest benefit that didn’t last or said their depression persisted. And others didn’t complete the two-week regimen because profound drowsiness, a common side effect of the drug, interfered with their ability to care for their babies or to fulfill other responsibilities.
One in eight women in the United States experiences depression during pregnancy or in the year after giving birth, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates, and effective treatments are crucially needed. While the fast-acting pill shows promise, doctors say the challenge now is to determine which patients will benefit and why some don’t.
Clinical trials of the drug found that postpartum depression improved in about 60 percent of patients. “It’s not everyone,” Dr. Samantha Meltzer-Brody, a leader of the trials and director of the Center for Women’s Mood Disorders at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, said at a National Institutes of Health conference. “So, what is it about the people that are going to respond versus those that don’t?”
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A session with Terry Real, a marriage and family therapist, can get uncomfortable. He’s known to mirror and amplify the emotions of his clients, sometimes cursing and nearly yelling, often in an attempt to get men in touch with the emotions they’re not used to honoring. Real says men are often pushed to shut off their expression of vulnerability when they’re young as part of the process of becoming a man. That process, he says, can lead to myriad problems in their relationships. He sees it as his job to pull them back into vulnerability and intimacy, reconfiguring their understanding of masculinity in order to build more wholesome and connected families. In this episode, Real explains why vulnerability is so essential to healthy masculinity and why his work with men feels more urgent than ever. He explains why he thinks our current models of masculinity are broken and what it will take to build new ones. This episode was inspired by a New York Times Magazine piece, “How I Learned That the Problem in My Marriage Was Me” by Daniel Oppenheimer. For more Modern Love, search for the show wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes every Wednesday. Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
How to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself
Cultivating self-compassion can actually help you cope better with life’s struggles.
Hoi Chan
If a friend is struggling with a big challenge or feels defeated, it’s usually our first instinct to offer words of comfort and understanding. But often it’s not so easy to do this for ourselves.
We can be our own harshest critics. Practicing a little self-compassion, though, goes a long way. Research shows that when people go through challenges or stressful situations, those who display more self-compassion are more resilient.
“We can say, ‘I made a mistake,’ as opposed to saying, ‘I am a mistake,’” said Kristin Neff, an associate professor of educational psychology at the University of Texas at Austin who has studied self-compassion for more than two decades. “It’s a healthier alternative to self-esteem, because it’s not about judging yourself positively, it’s just about being helpful and kind to yourself.
Relationships 2.0: Keeping Love Alive
By Hidden Brain Staff / April 30, 2025
There’s no magic potion that can make someone adore you. But there are things you can do to promote a deep and enduring connection — and even feelings of passion — between yourself and your partner. In the final chapter of our Relationships 2.0 series, psychologist Arthur Aron shares some techniques for falling and staying in love.
In today’s conversation, we explore:
*The assumption that love fades over time.
*The effects of daily routine on romantic relationships.
*What our choice in a romantic partners says about us
*How successful long-term couples keep love alive
If you love Hidden Brain, please join us for our upcoming live tour! Shankar will be visiting cities across the U.S., and our listeners have the first crack at purchasing tickets. You can get yours at https://hiddenbrain.org/tour/. Use the pre-sale code BRAIN. We hope to see you there!
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Potawatomi botanist Robin Wall Kimmerer discusses the philosophy of a “gift economy” in her latest book The Serviceberry, expanding on the theme of reciprocity from her wonderful 2013 book Braiding Sweetgrass.
“The goods and services that economics are meant to provide for us, they are material, they are the things that we need in order to live,” Kimmerer continues. “Those are often commodities, but the things that we hold most precious, like pure water, the taste of wild berries, and the regard of our neighbors — the trust of our neighbors — those can never be commodified. For those, we have a ‘gift economy.’”
Drawing on native beliefs and traditions, Kimmerer explains that the abundant fruits of the humble serviceberry serve as a sweet reminder of our interdependence. It reminds us that all flourishing is mutual, “from bees, to birds, to microbes, to us.”
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A powerful reminder that if you’re grieving, or anticipating a deep loss, moments of peace are still available to you.
(And how appropriate that they’d come from the more-than-human world.)
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Read moreThe right mentor can change your career. Here's how to find one
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How to find a mentor: 3 Steps
By Anjuli Sastry Krbechek and Andee Tagle for NPR
The right mentor can change your career. Here's how to find one
Imagine this: Someone you admire sets aside time to meet with you. They share how they accomplished their goals. And over time, they cheer you on and give you feedback and advice. Sounds pretty great, right? That is what we call a mentor.
The right mentoring relationship can be a powerful tool for professional growth — it can lead to new career opportunities, a promotion, even a better work-life balance.
One of the trickiest things about mentoring, though, is that it often happens informally. And that can make it difficult to find an entry point.
Here's how to find a good mentor, officially make the ask and make it work.
1. Finding the Right Mentor
Know your goals (both short and long-term).
Ask yourself who you look up to.
Do the research.
Be cognizant of your existing network.
Recognize the difference between a mentor and a sponsor.
2. Making the Ask to a potential mentor
Have an elevator pitch ready.
Make sure it's the right fit before asking.
Mention what you like about the person's work, especially if you've never met.
If it's a cold email, it's OK to start with the informational interview ask.
3. Tips on Being a Good Mentee
Remember your goals.
Meet consistently.
Set an agenda.
Be open to feedback: positive or constructive.
Take notes as you're meeting so that you can follow up via email.
Decide on an end date.
Remember that this relationship is not a therapy session.
Finally, consider establishing a board of mentors.
Read the full article here for details on each tip.
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