8 Solo Date Ideas That Can Help You Actually Enjoy Doing Things Alone
By Jenna Ryu for Self
Going to a cozy bar or weekday movie by yourself doesn’t have to be awkward.
Hanging with friends or family, enjoying a romatic evening, and bonding with coworkers after hours are all fine ways to fill your leisure time. But maybe your loved ones are busy or live far away. Or perhaps you’re extremely single or, frankly, just not in the mood to talk to anyone and craving some me time.
No matter why you’re looking to have fun by yourself, the options for solo date ideas may seem pretty limited. Aside from rotting in bed or reserving a table at your favorite restaurant (which might sound awkward), what else can you really do?
First, you might need a perspective shift. Many of us are turned off by the idea of venturing out on our own and fear that we’ll look (and feel) like, well, unlovable losers. But that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Here are some suggestions for your solo date.
1. Go on a nature walk or scenic hike.
2. If seeing a movie in a packed theater intimidates you, try a matinee.
3. Chill out (or knock some items off your to-do list) at a cute coffee shop.
4. Try a new workout class.
5. Treat yourself to a spa or self-care day.
6. Make yourself a mind-blowing meal (or dessert).
7. Savor a delicious cocktail at a local bar.
8. Shop (or window browse) to your heart’s content.
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